THE MAGIC OF SISTERHOOD
Let’s talk about sisterhood.
Sisterhood goes beyond family. We are extremely lucky if we have a blood sister who we can deeply relate to, but even if our biological family doesn’t include a sister like that, we have the capability to seek out and invest in friendships with other women. When we do this with intention and cultivate a relationship of respect, accountability, deep listening, and an ongoing friendship, we find ourselves in a sisterhood!
There are many benefits to true sisterhood:
Emotional Security
When women gather, we create an intimate, deep, and sacred space to feel honored, seen, and related to by others of our own kind. We are all social beings by nature, and women especially become stronger when they have a place of belonging and community. Through sisterhood, we are able to establish deep connections, help one another to process emotion, step into our best selves, and find humility in our experiences.
Empowerment
Because you are an essential part of a sisterhood, you are placed in a position of power. You find reflections of yourself in the relationship with your fellow women, reminding you that you are important. This helps you naturally cultivate confidence, inspiring you to become the leader of your own life. Just as another strong, wise woman inspires you, you inspire her, and others too.
When we are alone, we often feel timid or unsure of ourselves. But in a sisterhood, what you feel, say and think matters, and that is what makes it sacred. Knowing that you have your sisters behind you allows you to feel supported, helping you to step more into your own sense of authority.
Leadership and Participation
An uplifting community is essential to self growth for us women. In an ongoing sisterhood, there is space to rise and be a leader, and space to sit and be a student. (I’ve seen this take place with women stepping in to lead others in song, dance, etc.) This dynamic takes some of the social pressure off and allows you to arrive as you are, take a deep breath, and be with your true friends.
When you share something with your sisters, you get heartfelt responses. The diversity that naturally comes in a group of women is beneficial. Hearing stories and wisdom from different perspectives help us all to keep expanding and growing! You are able to reflect on your personal life experiences with a widened view.
Accountability
In a sisterhood, your sisters know you and your tendencies, which means you are accountable for your own actions. This is great, because now you have an ongoing circle of women who will reach out when you don’t show up or are slipping down. You have sisters who will celebrate your accomplishments in life with you, adding more value and meaning to your experiences. Who doesn't like to celebrate with sisters who are truly happy for them? This type of dynamic creates an uplifting and exciting energy: you are more motivated to actually keep working on your goals, and more likely to reach them!
So play an active part in the circle of women that you have in your life. Show up with integrity and humility, and encourage them to do the same. You matter and make a difference, and the benefits of an awesome sisterhood are endless!
To join our incredible sisterhood at Sovereign Sisters’ Society, join in on one of our free weekly Sisters’ Circles!
